Excerpts from

God Helps Those Who Help Themselves

Chapter 6, p. 117

Gathering up the chart, and backing out the door, he said, "Okay, we'll get the test results back, check his levels, and go from there."

We'll go from there. How many times had I heard that phrase? I should have known better than to get my hopes up. The intern-I could spot 'em a mile away-had labeled me as an overbearing mother. They failed to give me credit for having any medical sense. I guess that was fair. I gave them no credit for having any common sense.

 

Epilogue, p.217

The physicians had decided that Brenton had epilepsy, and ordered tests to prove it. Had they noted his symptoms, then ordered tests to gain more information, perhaps they would have arrived at the correct diagnosis. This disorder isn't new, and is less rare than some of the diseases that he was tested for. The factor that had been overlooked was his symptoms. I was treated like an overbearing aggravation. Though I was a registered nurse, they never listened to my concerns. Any parent that has information for the physicians should be taken seriously. The ego of the physicians we encountered wouldn't allow them to consider that my husband and I might have something to contribute. Compounding the simmering anger is the simple fact that it could have been prevented. If you hear hoofbeats, and decide it's a horse, you may miss the zebras. Just open your eyes, and you will see the stripes.

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